Cultivating great friendships is one of the surest ways to find more happiness and joy in your life. According to the recent studies it shows that those with a wide circle of friends and family live longer,laugh more and worry less ,but friendships like all other good things in life, take time ,energy and commitment.. Having said this, few things will offer greater rewards.
One of the writers said many centuries ago " There is nothing in the world more valuable than great and strong friendship, those who banish it from their lives remove as it were the sun from the earth., because of all nature's gift it is the most beautiful and most pleasing ever "
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As i grew up once my father often said that the person with one great friend is a rich person indeed.
I have never forgotten this advice and encourage you to take it to heart aswell. To build deep deeper friendships, you must be willing to move out of your comfort zone, break the ice with people you might not know very well and show sincere warmth. If you plant the seeds of friendship , you are bound to receive a rich harvest of great friends. If you want to a great and strong bond of friendship , have the courage to walk over to someone you would like to get to know better and introduce yourself . Remember, every human being has a deep need for affection and most people will be delighted you took the initiative. And if they do not respond to you ,so what? Rather than viewing it as rejection , see it as their loss and politely move on to the next person who can benefit from all you have to offer.
Once, i was in the motivational speech ceremony and there was a guy who shared a beautiful story about her mother. He said ' A while ago, his mother's car had a flat tire while when was on her way to do an errand. She asked a stranger who was watering the lawn in front of her house whether she would mind if mom left her car in their driveway while she was walked to the gas station nearby to get help. The woman said she didn't mind and so my mother left. After returning and having the flat tire repaired, His Mom went to the front door of the house and warmly thanked the owner for her kindness. The woman, in turn invited his mother in for a cup of tea. And the miracle happened here, over the next hour, the two of them discovered they had grown up in the same town, gone to the same school and knew many of the same people", This is where a great friendship developed simply because his mother took the initiative to make a new friend.
