Happiness Is A Problem

About twenty-five hundred years ago, in the Himalayan foothills of present-day Nepal, there lived in a great palace a king who was going to have son. For this son the king had a particularly grand idea: he would make the child's life perfect. The child would never know a moment of suffering every need, every desire, would be accounted for at all times.

 The king built up high walls around the palace that prevented the prince from knowing the outside world. He spoiled the child, lavishing him with food and gifts surrounding with servants who catered to his every whim.And just as planned, the child grew up ignorant of the routine cruelties of human existence.

All of the prince's childhood went on like this. But despite the endless luxury and opulence, the prince became kind of a pissed off young man. Soon, every experience felt empty and valueless. The problem was that no matter what his father gave him, it never seems enough, never meant anything 

So late one night, the prince snuck out of the palace to see what was beyond its walls. He had a servant drive him through  the local village, end what he saw horrified him. For the first time in his life , the prince saw human suffering. He saw sick people, old people,homeless people in pain even people dying.

the prince returned to the palace and found himself in some sort of existential crisis. Not knowing how to process what he'd seen, he got all emo about everything and complained a lot. And, as is so typical of young men, the prince ended up blaming his father for very things his father had tried to do for him. It was the riches, the prince thought that had made him so miserable, that had made life seem so meaningless. He decided to run away............................

 TO BE CONTINUED.... 

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Your Life Is Worth More Than A Suicide #donotcommitsuicide / ANAM NAVEED TANOLI

Before coming to my point i want to tell you guys one thing that " It's not just your life, It's your mother's hope, your father's support and Allah's soul "

I want you guys to listen to me and read this, i know it's not a fun topic but yeah very important for the narrow minded society. The  80% reason behind suicide is poor grades in schools or colleges. These days people think that life is all about one opportunity... Dude are you serious? You must  be thinking  that there is one opportunity if you get it that will be good but if you failed to catch that opportunity you are a failure. RIGHT? . Take a second and think about this again. OK no it's not like this, you considering this one opportunity failure is  the biggest failure of your life. And that's where you are making a mistake. Now imagine yourself batting in a cricket ground and the bowler in front of you bowling at you and he bowled  and you missed the shot. what now? will you commit suicide or will you stand there and face the next ball?. Obviously you will stand there and face the next ball because you don't have any option right. So this is life, you are batting and in front of you is life throwing opportunities at you, don't worry  if you missed one opportunity , there is thousands opportunities will come , keep practicing because from those thousands i am sure, i am dead sure   you will get one. May be the opportunity you missed was not good or suitable for you.  See Suicide is not always an option, you know what's the option is next chance.

                   

I want you to know  that, no matter where you are in life, no matter how low you ave sunk, no matter how bleak your situation remember one thing in your mind that THIS IS NOT THE END.This is not the end of your story. this is not the final chapter of your life . I know it may be hard right now for you guys but if you just hang in there, stick it out and stay with me for a little while, you will find that this tough moment will pass and if you are committed to using this pain, using it to build your character , finding a greater meaning for the pain , you will find that in time. You know you have the power to turn your life around and help others going through the same struggles. The world is right now in the middle of a mental health crisis, it is estimated almost half the population suffers from depression at some stage throughout their life, rather than joining the queue of suicide victims. It is important we learn why we get down and then how we can change it. Because believe it or not, we create our own negative feelings and we can also ensure that we turn our lives around and be a positive change for others. You think after committing suicide you will straight go to Heaven no, because Allah hate those who commit suicide and he will put you in hell Wallah, he'll be angry in the end you know why   because  he gave you life , he gave you what you can't even dream of. You think people around you giving you hard times no it's Allah who is testing you to prepare you for the next life. And be the person who can easily get over those test and win every thing.  Suicides are just for CRIMINALS not for every tiny soul. The reason anyone gets depressed always comes down the consistent thoughts we think and the consistent belief we hold , the point here is that anyone that is depressed is so, because there is an external factor that didn't materialize in their life  they have lost something outside of their control or don't have something that is out of their control.  

                                                                           

In school, we are taught how to get a job but no one teaches how to live in a state of happiness. no one teaches us how important our conscious and unconscious thoughts and association are. I wanna ask you guys one important question.

IS OUR HAPPINESS NOT WORTH MORE THAN A JOB OR SUICIDE? 

And before you say happiness won't pay my bills remember happiness will pay your bills, when you realize you will be 10 times more energized, focused and take positive action in your life.

Now i wanna  talk about the recent victim of suicidal act ANAM NAVEED TANOLI  Pakistani model. 

This is for the BULLIES, guys never ever say anything to someone else your words can take someones life away. Hurting someone with words  is also a crime but the punishment of this life either you'll get here if not here but in the end Allah will question you for this. Never make fun of anyone's skin color or any body part it doesn't matter how educated you are but if you make fun of others and hurt them sorry for me you are still a kinder garden student.

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Why You Need To Walk Alone In Life?

Remember one thing that SUCCESS can be a lonely road, it can be a tough road.It can be a hard road but it is not for everyone. Those who follow other like sheep will never know who they truly are are .Only those who follow their own path can discover their true POTENTIAL. There is a beautiful and strong quotation says " THOSE WHO FLY ALONE HAVE THE STRONGEST WINGS" . Those who walk alone have the strongest direction. The rest will always be in need of others or their survival. They will always need attention, need recognition to survive. I am at place alone , needing no attention, no recognition and yeah still i THRIVE. I am not saying those who have support are weak, i am not saying you must go at it alone to gain strength. This is just for those who have fought battles alone, those who have felt like they don't fit in, those who have never had support in anything they do. All of those who feel no one believes in them... you don't need them to believe in you. If you  believe in you, you don't need their support if you have got your own back. The best part is when you truly live the life you want to live , when you speak your truth... when you embrace yourself then you gain real respect, and real love. People love those who have the GUTS to be themselves. Those who have the courage  to follow their heart.. why? it is rare. why?. Because most people wish they could do the same. Show them the way keep going  believe in yourself and i bet my life that it will all come good in the end and when it does you won't have have only inspired yourself to be more, you will have inspired so many others.  

I had to learn fight alone  and because of that i am strong alone. I AM STRONG. I developed inner strength  that can't be broken, i am unbreakable. Because of the pain i am strong, because  of the struggle i have character most will never know. I appreciate others more than ever. I have more compassion than ever. I had to go deep into the darkness. Now i have more depth, now i can see clearer. I had to face huge internal challenges, now i can defeat any challenge. I will destroy every challenge. I am proud of myself, i am proud i have overcome , i am proud i kept going. And be proud of who you are and stay true to yourself. Never ever be afraid of anyone accept the reality or change the reality, choice is yours. I am not saying to leave everyone or don't talk with anyone. I am saying to take one just one ONE positive step in your life. If  you believe in that step you'll go further..........

Short Inspirational Stories With Deep Messages.

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THE  ELEPHANT ROPE (BELIEF)

A gentleman was walking through an elephant camp, and he spotted that the elephants weren’t being kept in cages or held by the use of chains. All that was holding them back from escaping the camp, was a small piece of rope tied to one of their legs.

As the man gazed upon the elephants, he was completely confused as to why the elephants didn’t just use their strength to break the rope and escape the camp. They could easily have done so, but instead, they didn’t try to at all.

Curious and wanting to know the answer, he asked a trainer nearby why the elephants were just standing there and never tried to escape.

The trainer replied;

“when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.”

The only reason that the elephants weren’t breaking free and escaping from the camp was that over time they adopted the belief that it just wasn’t possible.

Moral of the story: No matter how much the world tries to hold you back, always continue with the belief that what you want to achieve is possible. Believing you can become successful is the most important step in actually achieving it.

CREATIVE THINKING 

In a small Italian town, hundreds of years ago, a small business owner owed a large sum of money to a loan-shark. The loan-shark was a very old, unattractive looking guy that just so happened to fancy the business owner’s daughter.

He decided to offer the businessman a deal that would completely wipe out the debt he owed him. However, the catch was that we would only wipe out the debt if he could marry the businessman’s daughter. Needless to say, this proposal was met with a look of disgust.

The loan-shark said that he would place two pebbles into a bag, one white and one black.

The daughter would then have to reach into the bag and pick out a pebble. If it was black, the debt would be wiped, but the loan-shark would then marry her. If it was white, the debt would also be wiped, but the daughter wouldn’t have to marry the loan-shark.

Standing on a pebble-strewn path in the businessman’s garden, the loan-shark bent over and picked up two pebbles. Whilst he was picking them up, the daughter noticed that he’d picked up two black pebbles and placed them both into the bag.

He then asked the daughter to reach into the bag and pick one.

The daughter naturally had three choices as to what she could have done:

1. Refuse to pick a pebble from the bag.
2. Take both pebbles out of the bag and expose the loan-shark for cheating.
3. Pick a pebble from the bag fully well knowing it was black and sacrifice herself for her father’s freedom.

She drew out a pebble from the bag, and before looking at it ‘accidentally’ dropped it into the midst of the other pebbles. She said to the loan-shark;

“Oh, how clumsy of me. Never mind, if you look into the bag for the one that is left, you will be able to tell which pebble I picked.”

The pebble left in the bag is obviously black, and seeing as the loan-shark didn’t want to be exposed, he had to play along as if the pebble the daughter dropped was white, and clear her father’s debt.

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Never Doubt Yourself

DOUBTS ARE LIKE POISON THAT KILLS YOU............

There is an Asian proverb  that reads :  WHEN THERE IS NO ENEMY WITHIN, THE ENEMY OUTSIDE CAN DO YOU NO HARM.

When you refuse  to allow any doubts in your own  mind, then no doubts from others will ever cloud your judgement . Remember when you create a strong mind there can be no other that will defeat you with their words, or with their judgments. When you believe in you, you need no other person to believe in you  because others really have no say in who you will become.Only  you have that say, only you can decide if others opinions become reality , or you create your own fate. One thing i always wanted to say that the greatest challenge and the greatest obstacle any human will face is their own doubts, their own fears and their own conditioned thoughts.

If you want to LIVE your dream, you will have to fight for it. You'll have to fight the greatest battles of your life, you'll have to battle the external enemy. People who don't believe in you, people who do you wrong, people who put you down you'll have to battle the intimate enemy. Those close to you who might do you wrong or may be you assume don't believe in you. Those who want the best for you, but their idea to support is to remind you of what can't be done or shouldn't be attempted. But the worst of all is the internal enemy. You will have to battle what seems like an army in your head , an army of doubt, fear of failure, fear of judgement, lack of belief. The voices inside your head saying: I am not good enough i am not worthy, i want to do this but i can't, i want to give to those i love but i can't. I am not worthy of love. , i will never be able to do this I AM HOPELESS. I have tried everything the world is against me no one believes in me, my life's not worth living. Remember there is no greater pan that can be inflicted on you, than your own internal enemy. Your own thoughts will cause you more pain than anyone or anything. They can be likened to a terrorist living in your soul, but when you learn  to control or direct your mind, you can direct  that internal voice to work for you, rather than against you. You get it to work for you by creating a compelling future, a future you will be proud to achieve,proud to live through. You can do this by not just having goals, but having meaningful goals. Goals that get you excited  to wake up every morning. You do this by understanding what your purpose in life really is. My question is what are you doing it all for ? When you know your faults and you work on them daily , you can  quiet that voice in your head.

YOU SHOULD NEVER DOUBT YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU NEVER, EVER KNOW WHAT'S AROUND THE CORNER.

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Are You Interested Or Are You Committed To Your Goals?

         

ARE YOU INTERESTED OR COMMITTED?

Two years ago when i was 17 years old, i was sitting around with some old people and those people was very successful financially, with his family, as a philanthropist, as a businessman. And there was one old man who asked me one question that defined the trajectory of my life. Then question he asked me was:  was i interested in achieving my life's goals and dreams  or was i committed to achieving them?  my reaction was , what do you mean sir? . He said if i was interesting i would do what's convenient, but i was committed i would do WHATEVER IT TAKES. Then he said to me, if you are interested, you will do what's convenient you will believe your stories and excuses  and you will continue to be a VICTIM. of  your current reality and circumstances. You'll come up with all the reasons why you can't achieve those goals and that's what you will be focusing on for the rest of your life.He said the big difference is, if you are committed you will start today to let go of your stories, your excuses, your reasons why you are achieving your certain results right now and why you can't achieve any of those goals and dreams you wrote down this piece of paper. He said if you are committed you will upgrade your knowledge , if you are committed you will upgrade your skills, if you are committed, you will come every single day and figure out how you can achieve those goals and why you must vs why you can't and why you won't  and after he explained the difference between interest and commitment to me i put my hand out and hook his hand and said I AM COMMITTED. Now i was scared shitless  to say that i am committed, because i had to let go of all of my reasons why i couldn't achieve my goals and dreams and the very act of writing my goals and then saying to him and then to myself. Make a commitment to myself... to be committed i started to achieve my life goals and dreams that i wrote down on that piece of paper. and not only i achieve every one of those. That's when my whole life changed. One commitment, one moment in your life can change the way your life was going. Said to yourself daily i know it is hard but when things are hard it means they are worth it. The first action steps towards commitment is to develop a plan for how you are going to actually achieve those goals. So here is my question for you:  are you interested achieving your any goals  or are you Committed? and if you are committed here is what i would like you to do: take a sheet of paper and write down one goal for every area of your life   and write down one goal when you want to achieve it by and then what i want you to is write down three action steps that you can take towards achieving those goals.  write down what you need to learn, what you need to believe and what you need to do?  take those things, put those right on your calendar  with a time by which you are going to complete those things and if you can do that for each one of your goals, if you can focus  on the goal you wanna achieve. you are going to be a type of person  that achieve your goals and dreams versus the person  who hopes and prays and wishes  that those goals and dreams become a reality. The person who achieves goals and dreams  takes consistent  daily, weekly, monthly action towards those goals and dreams and they don't allow their stories or their excuses.

YOU ARE COMMITTED TO ACHIEVING YOUR GOAL NO MATTER WHAT......... 

Story Of The Ugly Man ( Islamic Story)

STORY OF THE UGLY MAN.

Well i was reading a  book named "  PROPHET HOOD" and there was a story written in that book so i thought why not to share that story with you guys. I now bring you to the story , that really moves my heart the most. He is a man , who was poor,  not only was he poor, he was a person who was ery unattractive, in fact the Scholars or the Sahabas used to describe him as hideous, if a person looks at him, just wants to look away so this man Allah (SWT) created him this way, poor not status in society and hideous and even his name was ugly, we are not meant to say that SAHABAS are ugly (i seek refuge in Allah), they are beautiful but the name he had was an unattractive name his name was JULAYBEEB (RA).This hadith is in Sahih Muslim and part of it is in also, AT-TIRMIDHI which is completely authentic Prophet (PBUH) saw Julaybeeb one day and he had older in age, he said to him, how are you Julaybeeb. That was such the case of Prophet (PBUH) How are you julaybeeb? and he answered Ya Prophet (PBUH) Do you think the only women i will get is in Jannah ? Prophet (PBUH) understood what he was trying to say  that he is never going to be able to get married in this life, is he just gonna die and just hope to meet HOOR AL AYN? Prophet (PBUH) said NO, you are going to get a women from dunyah InshaAllah and also from the akhira in other words i would have said, No 

HOOR AT TYN AND HOOR AL AYN InshaAllah. Hoor At Tyn means soil and the people around them laugh and they laughed very hard. SO, Prophet (PBUH) said, Julaybeeb, go to so and so house and ask, they have a daughter. He went and they rejected him so Prophet (PBUH) came to  this man  and said to him,I want to ask for your daughter's hand , he was so shocked and said what a beautiful news this is, that makes the eyes enlighten the heart, SubhanAllah. Prophet said no, no it is not for me and he said who for then? he said for Julaybeeb and suddenly his smile turned into a frown  and he said, let me ask her mother so he went home and said Prophet (PBUH) asked for our daughter , she was so excited and said what great honor! what brings comfort to the eyes and to the heart and he said not for Prophet then she said who for? He said, for Julaybeeb and then the mother said we had better men than him coming and asking for our daughter and we rejected him, we had greater families asking for her and we refused them and now the lowest of the low in society and the most hideous , we have to give our daughter to him? she said NO , please. There daughter was in the background inside listening so she came out and said, what is this that i heard mom and dad? Prophet(PBUH) is on behalf of another man proposing that man to me and you say no to Prophet? daughter said Wallahi i will not refuse the request of Prophet (PBUH) and Julaybeeb is the only man  i will marry. When the news came to Julaybeeb, he was so rejoiceful MashaAllah and Prophet /(PBUH) got  the companions to look after him and donate so that he can get married time passed and there was one of the battles then Julaybeeb was among the people who went into that battles Prophet (PBUH) was there and the battle hadled was victorious to the Muslims and then he went out as he usually does and looks among  the Sahabas, they were great Sahabas who died and he is asking everybody's asking about their relatives but Prophet (PBUH) was asking one question, Where is my Julaybeeb?and everybody would say we don't know nobody cares about Julaybeeb only Prophet cares about JUlaybeeb. Where is my Julaybeeb? so he went looking for him and a midst the dead people he finally found Julaybeeb (RA), dead on the ground and around him as a circle, there was seven of the enemies dead around him  and when the Prophet saw this image , he stared at hum and his eyes flowed with tears. He said , he killed seven of the enemies of Islam and then he was killed Julaybeeb is of me and i of him and he repeated this three times and said he is one of my family and i am one of  his family then Julaybeeb had no other bed excepts the bed of the palms of and he carried him on his own forearms and he was crying then suddenly his tears turned into a smile  and he looked away  and Julaybeeb with his own blessed hands then people around him asked why are you crying and smile  and then he said Allah showed  =me his place in JANNAH  i saw his soul in Jannah and there was one of his wives from the hoor  running towards him so i smiled that he finally got his wife which he wanted in jannah.